Tag: autism characteristics
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How to ‘spot a genuine man’?
That is another thing about language that I have problem with: the above question, without the quotation marks, is often being used in dating advice articles. And what does ‘genuine’ mean? Authentic, real, sincere. But the question is used to mean something different: how to find a man who will commit to you. This way,…
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Friends with benefits
Again, I was thinking whether to put this on the blog or not, but then sexuality is an important part of my existence and my experience, as an autistic female, seems to be so much different from other autistic females or even non autistic females, that I just cannot omit it on my autistic blog.…
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Sexual abuse and communication (what my mum used to say)
Ok, I felt a bit uncomfortable while deciding if I should blog about it or not, but then I blog about life as an autistic female and sexuality is part of life, isn’t it? So it shouldn’t be omitted. There is some talk about sexuality and autistic females online already and I find it all…
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Something silly (notifications again)
I need to admit to something really silly here, I broke up with The Boyfriend because of notifications. I was thinking about our relationship and was dissatisfied and then read online about a woman who ended a relationship because it didn’t bring her fulfilment any more and I somehow decided I need to do the…
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Love is not sufficient
One thing that I didn’t mention yet is, that I didn’t want to be with The Boyfriend because of my blog. I like blogging more and more, it gave me new lease of life. But I realised that The Boyfriend, although supportive of the idea in general, wouldn’t be interested in revealing his identity if…
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Eureka! (Other people perspective)
This is a continuation of my last post where I commented how my diagnostician casually mentioned I can’t see other people perspective but refused to elaborate on that and this, with time, made me focused on exactly that – other people perspective. I have no idea where my diagnostician got that from. The assessment wasn’t…
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I feel emotional
I’m back in my B&B after spending most of the day outside. Weymouth is beautiful. I had loads of walks, ate cake for lunch and drank large glass of wine in the afternoon. It was a good day overall. I may go out later again to get something to eat but it depends on how…
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Is it possible to forget how to work?
I feel a bit moody today and like if I lost my confidence. The last couple of months were certainly good for my creativity and to get rid of stress I was under almost constantly but I also feel like I kept myself in my autistic bubble a lot (well, that is probably why I…
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Work training (and dodgy Booking.com host)
I’m going for my work training next week. The training is in Portland which is a small town in Dorset and the closest train station is Weymouth. Training takes place on Tuesday and Wednesday so I have to go there on Monday as I wouldn’t be able to get there on Tuesday morning, it is…
Autistic and me 