Tag: dating
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Break up story continues
It’s probably strange to discuss break up on a blog but I was already explaining that my blog is to record how I think and feel and this is an important part to discuss as I don’t seem to agree with any advice regarding breaking up that I found online this morning. First of all,…
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There were things happening lately…
That is what neurotypical people say when they had something going on but don’t want to discuss that. So that is what happened to me. I didn’t sleep the entire night thinking about what I should do. I think I may need to break up with The Boyfriend. It’s difficult. I still love him but…
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Croissants and yoghurt – continuation
Ok, just a quick post as I’m really tired today. I barely had any sleep last night, that’s how bad the mattress in the previous hotel was. Now I’m in Weymouth and trying to rest but I feel like the whole idea of blogging about autism specific communication is suddenly overwhelming me. Possibly there is…
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Yes, I have a driving licence (but I do not drive)
And anyway, it’s only provisional… ok, I’ll come back to this part later. Since I bought my subscription to PicsArt on the 10th of December last year, I seriously didn’t anticipate this may ever happen, but I don’t want to do any more art at the moment. Not forever, oh no, I’m sure I’ll come…
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Blinis 2
As always, I don’t know how to title my posts. Everything seems so out of place, but then, titling them by numbers would not be very practical now, when I used links to some of them in other posts. It’s the third day of my exhaustion, at this moment it seems unbelievable that it’s all…
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Surprise, surprise!
One of the advice for supporting autistic people is making everything predictable. But can it actually work? You may at times think that it does because it helped you prevent your autistic husband’s/friend’s/child’s meltdown but how does it make you feel? Are you not stressed by constantly trying to control everything? Do you not feel…
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Autistics and sex life
This post is not going to contain anything that I’d consider an adult content, just general discussion that you can find on TV at any time of the day. So I know that some people are really interested in our sex lives. I’d say we’re not much different than neurotypicals really, however it may be…
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Playing games
What I wanted to talk about here is how autistic females’ behaviour can be misinterpreted by men who are interested in them as ‘playing games’. Only because we don’t know how to respond to their flirting and sometimes get it right but at other times completely wrong, the men may think we play games with…
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Magda’s dating advice 1
I just watched a YouTube videa by Max Derrat called ‘Autism and loneliness’. Max has a very interesting way of talking about his autistic struggle so I do recommend you watch it too. It is obvious, however that trying to work out the scary, confusing social world around him is putting him through loads of…
Autistic and me 