Tag: dating
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Accidental proposal (Marni Batista)
Today I thought John is trying to propose to me, but instead he reminded me we’re not in a relationship. Oh well… so I told him not to argue, for the same reason. Not that we argued when we were in a relationship. The rule of thum is, however, if a guy doesn’t consider you…
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Dating advice – Jonathon Aslay
The above is a link to one of Jonathon’s YouTube videos. I promised a few days ago that I’ll find out a bit more about Jonathon and what he is about and I decided he’s ok. I don’t agree with absolutely everything that he says but I think this is ok too – we are…
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Guide on how to escape from yourself
I mentioned here before that since I started blogging, I sometimes see words in my head like if they were typed up. Those words seem to describe situation that I am in and appear when I’m under stress. It doesn’t happen very often, but it happened again today. Only that the word ‘yourself’ was not…
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Can relationship be a separate entity?
I spent part of my Sunday on listening to podcasts about relationships. I found a relationship coach called Jonathon Aslay who seems to be making a lot of sense but I didn’t spend enough time on studying what he has to say to really be able to recommend him. I certainly think though that he…
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It’s complicated
That is my current relationship status on Facebook. I’m not quite sure why I chose it because, when I first broke up with John, I told him it’s definitely over. Our relationship seemed to be devoid of passion lately and I can’t blame it on anyone, not even myself. I guess this is what happens…
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My challenging communication style and relationships
It took me ages to understand how my challenging communication style affects relationships. It’s not a positive impact, that’s for sure, but I feel like this communication style is who I am. I can’t change it only because I know that a relationship may fail. It is my instinctive understanding that if something doesn’t work…
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Why I don’t admire John Gray (Men are from Venice or whatever)
I bet you know who I mean. This guy, who I believe has PhD in human psychology (can one have PhD in animal psychology actually?), who wrote a couple of books about men being from Mars and women being from Venus. In general the conxept is great and he has some insights, I can’t deny…
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‘He was saying I had a lovely eyes and a lovely personality’ and then he never texted her again.
What will you say for another piece of a dating advice from an autistic female? I wonder how well I managed to work how guys really think. Is it possible that I’m better at it than neurotypical women are? What I think sometimes happens with neurotypical people is that they assume that others think the…
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The most bizarre dating story ever
I wonder whether anyone can beat me at that. So, as I said earlier, after I left my first partner in my early 30s, I wanted to meet emotionally unavailable man for a romance. I didn’t know at the time that they don’t really exist; there seems to be loads of them everywhere, men who…
Autistic and me 