Tag: workplace bullying
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Punishment – a bad idea
I had a lovely Christmas with The Boyfriend – I will not be describing how our Christmas are different from neurotypical people Christmas as I think it would not really add much to understanding of our needs, but possibly, when I become an established blogger I may add a few words on that, if somebody…
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What I know about neurotypicals (I think Cambridge University blocked my incoming emails)
So, basically I used to worry that the longer I blog, the less I will have to share. It seems, however, like the opposite happens: the more I write about autism, the more I notice about myself and the more it is to report, I need to prioritise some stuff over other and therefore the…
Magda Regula
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My flat
At the moment I have ideas for at least 3 posts: Whether IT really is a good job for autistic people (spoiler alert: I don’t think it is) Why I needed to see how the testing nipple looked like on my gas meter before calling my gas supplier How I was sectioned in 2019 And,…
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Me and Devi
I’ve been watching Rebecca Zung lately again as I found her videos really informative. Rebecca Zung is an US divorce attorney and ‘narcissists negotiator’ as she calls herself. She seems to know a lot about narcissists, definitely much more than me, however, she’s focused on divorces and not on working with one so it’s hard…
Magda Regula
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Things change all the time
It’s been good couple of days since I last posted. It’s not like me to take a few days off from blogging, but then, I am a beginner blogger and my habits may change, especially after I state everything about my life history (you know, all the Home Group stuff and such) but this time…
Magda Regula
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A little update on Home Group drama
I believe it was a week ago when I requested Mr Henderson, the CEO of Home Group to apologise to me. So far he didn’t. I find it difficult to assess if I really believed he would – as an autistic person I find it difficult to predict other people behaviour, although at times I…
Magda Regula
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You learn something new everyday
I really like this saying, it’s so positive. I was working as a hotel housekeeper today. It’s two days booking through an agency. What I learned today was: – Hotel double duvet is not square (as you can imagine that has a massive impact on time needed for making the bed! – The only way…
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A little sum up
From what I remember, the last time I was actually at work was around the end of April, so it’s approximately 6 months now. Therefore I’d like to sum up this time here, not from the perspective of someone who can’t find a job (I did only start looking recently and received some job offers…
Magda Regula
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Meaning of dreams
For a few years now I keep having this dream every now and then that I discover another area in my flat that I was not aware of. Sometimes it’s just one more bedroom that needs a lot of work, at other times it’s a massive lounge and a swimming pool (that wod be nice,…
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Talking about difficult experiences
So today I had my second day of an online training for live in carer. When we were about to discuss dementia I decided to share my recent experience with mum: I said how I had to finally accept that she has dementia after her state deteriorated rapidly but just a few months ago her…
Magda Regula
Autistic and me 