Tag: narcissist

• A little sum up

  From what I remember, the last time I was actually at work was around the end of April, so it’s approximately 6 months now. Therefore I’d like to sum up this time here, not from the perspective of someone who can’t find a job (I did only start looking recently and received some job offers…

  Magda Regula

  October 24, 2021

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  autistic identity, diagnosis, employment, fraud, mental health, mum, naive, narcissist, Poland, psychosis, unemployment, workplace bullying

• My social needs (plus a little digression about Home Group)

  Believe me or not, the fact that I’m autistic doesn’t mean I have no social needs. I still want to be loved, appreciated, taken care of and have friends. My social needs may be lower than other people but I still have them. What is surprising though, is the fact that even though my social…

  Magda Regula

  October 18, 2021

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  autistic identity, being social, narcissist, The Boyfriend, workplace bullying

• Researching neurotypicals (me vs Home Group)

  (For those of you who don’t already know Home Group is a large housing association with head office in Newcastle, UK, that I used to work for and I was a victim of harassment there. They claimed in an official document for Employment Tribunal that my autism diagnosis was private and they paid for it,…

  Magda Regula

  October 16, 2021

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  communication, employment, narcissist, neurotypicals, The Boyfriend, workplace bullying

• Narcissist at work part 2

  Devi, the person who gave me so much problems when I worked for Home Group, had a desire to share everything. That was actually the first issue I noticed. She was irritated by the fact that I used to bring my own lactose free milk. She and the manager were sharing milk, and I should…

  Magda Regula

  July 30, 2021

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  narcissist

• Narcissist at work – part 1

  I believe that Devi from my story was a narcissist. I also believe that narcissists are responsible for most of the bulling that autistic people experience, if not all of it. Narcissists need to feel they influence people around them and they use their social skills to do that, but because we don’t understand their…

  Magda Regula

  July 19, 2021

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  narcissist

• Workplace bullying

  Around a year after I was diagnosed I set up a blog. I had loads of courage and commitment but was confused about what to write. I couldn’t talk about Home Group (my ex employer) as my case was in Employment Tribunal, and anyway, I didn’t know at the time they were going to claim…

  Magda Regula

  July 17, 2021

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  coping, diagnosis, narcissist, workplace bullying