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  • Surprise, surprise!

    One of the advice for supporting autistic people is making everything predictable. But can it actually work? You may at times think that it does because it helped you prevent your autistic husband’s/friend’s/child’s meltdown but how does it make you feel? Are you not stressed by constantly trying to control everything? Do you not feel…

    Magda Regula

    October 13, 2021
    communication
    challenging behaviour, communication, coping, dating, meltdown, The Boyfriend
  • Unfamiliar faces

    One of the thing that I forgot to mention so far was a little situation form the job interview I had two days ago. This one, where I was offered a job informally and later decided, after making sophisticated mental effort, that it would be better for everyone involved if I just never contact them…

    Magda Regula

    October 13, 2021
    communication
    communication
  • What is going to happen now? (Me vs Home Group)

    As you may know a few years ago I had employment tribunal claim against a large housing association, Home Group. Their response to my claim stated that my diagnosis was private and they paid for it, but it was on NHS and they never got involved. The claim was about harassment as I was bullied…

    Magda Regula

    October 13, 2021
    Uncategorized
    autistic identity, communication, mental health, naive, neurotypicals, Poland, psychosis, workplace bullying
  • My psychiatric nurse

    So, first of all I wanted to say my psychiatric nurse is absolutely lovely person and a brilliant communicator. I can appreciate that especially because, as an autistic person, I have a history of failed attempts at receiving support from various people and organisations. I will not be going into details here but it all…

    Magda Regula

    October 12, 2021
    communication
    communication, mental health
  • Fragile

    This post will be about parcel tape, or at least that’s how it’s going to start as I may then move onto something else. So, I finally decided that it’s time to post my mum’s clothes to her care home. I feel kind of sorry for her that I didn’t do it earlier but not…

    Magda Regula

    October 12, 2021
    Uncategorized
    communication, employment
  • Good mental health

    I suppose writing openly about mental health requries me mentioning the times when my mental health is good. I am actually surprised how much better I feel when my problems (sort of) has been managed and my contact with people is limited and rather formal – only during interviews. I didn’t feel low or on…

    Magda Regula

    October 11, 2021
    Uncategorized
    communication
  • How I celebrated World Mental Health Day

    I sent a following email today to Mr Mark Henderson, CEO of Home Group. Dear Mr Henderson, The last time I contacted you I was out of the country dealing with family issues so didn’t have access to my post.I made it clear to you I post that email on my website for people to…

    Magda Regula

    October 10, 2021
    Uncategorized
    challenging behaviour, mental health, workplace bullying
  • Sensory room

    There is a very strong drive in the care industry to create ‘sensory rooms’ for residents with autism. Those rooms usually contain flashing lights – I personally hate them. Flashing lights can even cause me to have a (silent) meltdown. Mind you, my meltdowns are always silent and my main symptom is that my brain…

    Magda Regula

    October 9, 2021
    Uncategorized
    meltdown, patterns
  • Hospital food

    I don’t suppose I’ve ever mentioned here what food we were been given when I was in psychiatric hospital in Poland? First of all there was absolutely no choice of what we were getting so if one was vegetarian and we had ham and bread for supper, they could only eat bread and butter –…

    Magda Regula

    October 8, 2021
    Uncategorized
    Poland
  • I don’t have to self isolate!

    So, I got that text message today from NHS Track and Trace that I was in contact with somebody who tested positive and I have to self isolate. I didn’t know who it was because I didn’t see anybody at all, except of the staff in Job Centre today in the morning. My guess is…

    Magda Regula

    October 8, 2021
    Uncategorized
    autistic identity, being social
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