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Neuroplasticity course
I did start neuroplasticity course from Brain Academy sometime ago. I did think for a little bit, maybe it will make me less autistic 😄😃 I quickly understood that although the course had no power to do that it could at least offer us a different perspective. Hate shopping? Next time you have to go…
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I’m on Redecor
A few weeks ago I sent my story to Redecor and they asked if I wanted to be on the game. I thought, exciting, and was really curious how they will manage to shorten the story into the game brief, but they did. Well done guys, and thank you for that beautiful bedroom, I especially…
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How to stop moaning when you talk to NTs
You know that feeling when you want to have a moan, but just a little one, like 3 minutes only, and then you want to move on? It’s not so easy when you talk to NTs. You need to know a special code. I discovered it in my early 30s by a total accident. It…
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The choice
One of the communication techniques I managed to work out by observing my diagnostician, is asking questions in form of, what I call, ‘statement with a void’. This one is very good for helping us make a choice. Let’s say you want to find out how the autistic person in your life would like to…
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I hope that helps
It has been brought to my attention that what I’m doing here – I mean, providing phrases neurotypical people use is not going to be effective.Well, obviously, we can’t just learn all of them by heart (although I don’t really have that many for now, do I?) but I’m sure it’s better to do that…
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Making things better by The Boyfriend
Change is making things better (Usually) Or going with the flow Of what life brings Change is filling in the gaps In this poem Adding what’s needed Being flexible Waking up, morning coffee and looking outside.
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I’m sure you’re going to handle everything beautifully
Imagine a situation when you have to leave work early and the only person staying in is much less experienced than you. What are you going to say? ‘I’m sure you’re going to handle everything beautifully’ is an example of a supportive and encouraging statement. If you’re both females, that is! Do not attempt to…
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Metamorphosis by K.R Mansfield
Like tadpoles to frogs; and caterpillars to butterflies, from grey hatchling to a beautiful Swan, Nature’s beauty, Forever evolving, Forever changing.
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Think about what you really want to do
When I first wanted to discuss starting this websire with my boyfriend, also autistic, he said: ‘Think about what you really want to do’ and it sounded really supportive, in a logical way, which is exactly what I appreciate him for. But then, after like two hours of exchanging ideas he said the same thing…
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Changing lives by Erica Woodcock
Change is happening everyday In discreet and more obvious ways Change can be a scary thought But can offer chances that one sought Change is the cycle of living It can enrich life and is very giving Change can be a positive thing Hope, love and laughter it can bring…