I’m thinking, how ridiculous this situation is. Normally when an elderly relative has money (although I don’t know how much is left after the fraud), everyone wants to help them. In my mum’s situation my brother is totally ignoring her.

He could have used the situation when she’s in the care home to go and see her, promise that he’s going to change, knowing that she’s unable to check. She would totally believe him and very likely give him power of attorney, he could then blow off all her money, but he can’t even attempt that little lie. He’s just waiting for her to die and I’m left with everything by myself.